The Role

The dictates of society and those around us are full of preconceived ideas. At this moment, all the functions, roles, mate choice, economy, everything absolutely shown blurred. There are no limits allowing to declare that it is the right thing and what they It is wrong. Most importantly is the daily live of people. It is not the role that have that exercise. It is rather layout, the intention, the goodwill that has to do it.

This is what is giving us the category of being a couple who feeds or one that he wears. WHO MAKES WHAT AND HOW. It is a circumstance that decide you to each couple. If one works and another stays at home, it is correct for that couple in particular. It is obvious, that what is decided also includes a commitment to a two. Because if one of them does not comply with what was agreed is missing to his promise. Make it clear does not fail the role, but its commitment to live as a couple.

WHO makes what and Comoes a game of trade-offs. In order to receive it is necessary to be able to give is necessary to receive and when, in the words still seems very easy to say, in actions not always the case. There are couples in which one of the members takes the greatest burden of functions. The result is as a rule General resentment, reproaches, fatigue and tension. In this life of a two, we have chosen to carry out, is Yes that is our choice of life, it is important to define who does what and whether not feel surprised, angry, disillusioned and betrayed by our other half. Course it is necessary that both are agree. It is also important to take into account that such agreements are changing with age or when we feel that that no longer meets us and that far from contributing to our relationship, on the contrary, gets worse it.