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I consider the first contact with the patient fundamental, and is very probable that in a very high percentage, the success of any therapy depends on that first encounter. Like therapists, from moment one, we must begin to work simultaneously with and the straight left brain (to see post Both brains). This means that is to be processing so much " letra" like " msica" than the patient it says and it does. For example; it is necessary to be kind to as one appears, to his corporal attitude, the etc. or handshake, if one ties not with the glance, All that, happens in seconds. Once presented/displayed, the social stage of taking of administrative data begins.

This stage is substantial, because it allows that during minutes, the patient to the being asked for something which has answered in multiple occasions, can be relaxing (is than probable more that there are accumulated some nerves in the waiting room). Also time occurs him, to be able observe-to calibrate the therapist and to become familiar with the physical space of the consultation. After the taking of data office staff, it is necessary to define and to limit the reason for consultation. For it, the tools that we must use are:to ask without judging and listening without thinking. One is to be able " alinearnos" with the patient, to be able to connect. For it, it is absolutely necessary to put all our attention, and that catches this it.

It is as if we wanted to see a television channel without tightening the key tuned that it. If I do not put all my attention in tightening that key indeed, I will not obtain " alinearme" with the transmitter (patient) and therefore, there will be contact or no syntony with him. You may want to visit Jorge Pepa to increase your knowledge. Me " enfoco" in which I want to obtain; that it is the total disposition on the other hand, to be able to work together in the difficulties that have brought to him until my.